How to deal with bullies at school
Avoiding
- Mainly for bullies that are not persistent
- Avoid contact before, during, and after class
- If it's occurring after class, don't be afraid to leave a few minutes early
Talking To Teachers
- This seems stupid, how could it work?
- Take a different approach, do not talk to teachers who can't handle their class's troublemakers
- Approach and talk to serious teachers that can maintain order in their class
- Explain the situation, this can escalate to the principal if it's serious enough
Stick To Friends
- A lot of the times bullying occurs is when the victim is alone
- If this isn't possible in the current situation, blend in a crowd
- Bullies do not often want to make a scene, as they intend to get away with it
Ignore Them
- If you can take it, take it, don't hold a grudge
- Think of them as idiots who do stupid things because they are idiots
- School is only a small part of one's life
- Eventually they may give up as they aren't getting the results they want
Talking To Parents
- They are always there for you, don't hold the burden by yourself
- Explain to them what's happening, even if there's no instant results
- Talking to others about it is better than keeping it all to yourself
- Parents are there to help you, it is your responsibility to ask for it
Stand Up For Yourself
- As mentioned above, bullies do what they do because they intend to get away with it
- Stand up for yourself, tell them you aren't going to deal with their crap anymore
- Fighting back can lead to trouble to both sides, use your own judgement, think before action
Last Resort
- If you cannot take it anymore, go all out
- One way too do this is if it's that serious, call the police, they will hear you out
- Take it through legal court, create evidence such as video recordings, give them one last warning
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